Sometimes in Our Lives

Valentine’s Day is fast approaching. Most people are happy about it and some people are not.

Why I am not surprised?

Sometimes in our lives, we experienced too much pain and at times, hatred to someone we cared and someone we loved, someone so special that we can’t afford to lose. Sometimes we just don’t understand why we have loved at all and make our hearts broken into pieces. We may feel traumatic or lost the desire to love again. Yet, we still live through each hurting days and get back on our feet and prepared to love again.

How can we mend our broken heart? A question that was so common, but nevertheless, we have no answer for it all. We just suddenly found ourselves in love again, but to what extent does we needed to be in love in order for us to survive again? Some questions we don’t really know if it exists if we are high in love and in pain.

We are in love in an unexpected day or way. We found out that the person we are with is worth loving. But are we prepared also to be hurt after the love has gone? More questions are coming out needed to be answered, but we just can’t, for love is a very confusing game to play, if it is a game of course.

Love can be deceitful, yet love can make us younger. Why deceitful? I don’t know the answer, but for what I see, love can make you a better person even if you do a lot of crazy things, but without it or if it disappeared, it brings out the worst of you and can make you even crazier.

Nobody can identify the science behind love. For some, love seems to be the perfect reason to have sex or make love. Some people say that love is just a feeling brought by pheromones. Nobody really seems to know why people get in love and hurt. These two factors I think are needed to be included and explained clearly in a science class if only it won’t be considered as an idiotic idea. That is why people don’t know what to expect if they are really in love and then get hurt.

Some people may ask why there are people are lucky in love. Again, we don’t know the real reason behind it, but in my opinion, if some people have not experienced being hurt because of love, then that person is not a perfect lover. So for me, to be in love and to be hurt, you will become a stronger person, you can adapt to any situation and you will become a more loving person. That is just my own idea.

Happy Valentine’s Day.